Let’s discuss about what is Personality Development? The meaning lies in the word itself i.e personality is equaled to Person + (his/her)abilities. Abilities to conduct him or herself in general. How we come across other people and to different situations in our lives tells a lot about our personalities. Our personality is basically our way of being. The unique set of thoughts and behaviors on a repeating loop. That is our personality that eventually governs our capability of communicating our unique internal world to the external world.
Our personality is basically our way of being. The unique set of thoughts and behaviors on a repeating loop.
As we all grew up in different environments given different life situations and so different inner experiences hence no two people can have the same life journey on this planet. That’s why we can say that everyone has developed a unique set of personality traits. So we all have unique personalities. And so Yes. You are unique.
Importance of knowing yourself
our personal and professional world both are directly dependent on our personality. So it holds huge importance to keep in touch with every aspect of our personalities like to know our weaknesses and strengths, to know our wants and needs, to know our expectations from ourselves and also from others, and then how we communicate them with others and so on. The list is huge. so at the end of the day, it basically depends on us how well we understand ourselves and our world so that we can live our lives satisfactorily and happily and fulfill. which is finally the main aim of putting so much effort into working upon yourself and make your personality shine.
Different Areas of Personality Development
Many people think when it comes to personality development that it must be related only to professionalism like how we can present ourselves better in our schools, colleges, offices, looking confident in presentations, having good leadership skills, being a good team member and having good English speaking skills and so on. Well, it’s not wrong to say that these all things hold their own importance in achieving success in our lives in the career and financial aspects of our life but we should also know that the range of our personality development is not so narrow only. Instead, it covers nearly all the possible areas of our life. It’s like our life quality depends on our personality.
Personality is also not about a degree, academics, jobs, and not even talents that you have. It may sound new and shocking to you but personality is deeper than our surface-level things and achievements. It’s a way of life. Many people who have achieved so many things in their lives fail to live happy life. WHY? Because at the end of the day your happiness depends upon WHO YOU ARE AS A PERSON not only on what you have achieved, not only on your degrees and jobs, not only on your talents. Of course, it’s the personality that did help you in achieving success in different areas of your life once and again. Your personality was the cause and these outcomes were the effect. It is not the other way round.
Make your personality Strong
The key is in making your personality strong. It’s our strong personality that holds the ability to transform our failures into successes, to turn our weaknesses into strengths, to turns obstacles into opportunities, to turn Our weak personality into a strong one.
Personality is with what mental and emotional attitude you welcome all the ups and downs that your life throws at you.